Monday, June 2, 2008
Been Very Very Busy!!
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
Got Frustrated!!
Monday, March 31, 2008
Shawn's Speech.
Wednesday, March 19, 2008
I Am Back !!
Now, I am ok and feel excited again to start to write about my boys, at least I have 3 princes to take care and feel blessed to have them around and cheer up my life.
Shawn progress so well, he started to call me "mummy" whenever he sees me. When I sit on the floor, he will quickly come to me. Before he could sit on my lap, he will call me first "Mummy, Mummy" and give me a wet, wet kiss on my cheek. He's now 18 mth old and only recently extra 4-6 tooth came out at the back of his gum. He got extremely good appetite and eats what ever we eat daily. He consumes 8ozs of milk every 3-4 hourly and 1 solid food during dinner. In between meal time, he takes biscuits and fruits. Every time when we open the fridge, out from no where he will squeeze himself in and quickly grasps a grape and quickly puts it into his mouth. I really enjoy seeing him doing that. Of course, he also turning more active and trying so hard to get our attention. He baby talks a lot with his own rhythm, we really don't understand what he is trying to say but surprisingly he understands what we instruct him to do and follow exactly. The only words we understand what he is saying is only "mum-mum", "bao-bao" and "mummy"... ; not even like to say "nen-nen" or "ko-ko". He will just point to the things that he wants and start to mumbles in his baby language.
Samson already turns 5 in Feb and will share his photo soon. He spell all his number in words from 1 - 12 and able to read his level 1 Peter and Jane story book. I bought him a sticker as a reward and he chose his favorite cartoon character, "Rat-A-Tooi". It cost abt RM6 per piece and he actually gave away some to his friends, ko-ko and jie-jie in church. I am trying to push him the BM suku-kata before he actually left far behind like his big brother. He is now in K1 and I really feel that my responsibilities to do revision daily with 2 boys are no longer an easy task for me.
Samuel is turning 8 this April and he's getting more mature than before. Sometime still fighting with Samson but he is now more willing to let go the toy if they fighting for the same toy. Well, taking care of boys is not easy task and really need a lot of patients. That's reminded me that there's one Sunday, I met a new friend and when I told her that I have 3 boys, she said "You must be very patient...." I looked at her and shake my head, trying to tell her that it's not true. I used to be a patient type of person but after having 3 boys in my life, I think me no longer a patient type. Anyway, back to Samuel; he is in std 2 now and every morning have to wake up at 5:30am and catch his bus at 5:50am. I have to wake up that early just to wake him up. After he goes off with the bus, I will take abt 10 min to do some light exercise then go back to bed till 7am and prepare myself to send Samson to kindy and myself to work. Transport has been arranged to send Samson back from school at 12pm and MIL will be at home to take care all the boys.
Samuel also had his evaluation exam before the school holiday started on 8 mar; he don't get a good score in his BM and Chinese subject but he shows improvement in his Math. He got 2 subjects with 90 over marks and it's my promise that he will get his little present if he scores 90 over marks for each subject. So during school holiday, I brought him to theater to watch "Horton" and planning to get a watch for him as he request to have one before. Not a expensive one, just less than RM50 is my budget. Oh ya, forgot to mention; he had his first spectacles during the CNY. The optician checked his eye and confirms that he had 100 & 150 degree 散光 on his both eyes. I don't how to call that in English. Hehe....
Well, don't you feel happy and so content to have 3 kids? I am so blessed and I feel so much content having them around.
Sunday, January 20, 2008
Something About Miscarriage
• Age: Older women are more likely to conceive babies with chromosomal abnormalities, and to miscarry them as a result. In fact, 40-year-olds are about twice as likely to miscarry as 20-year-olds.
• A history of miscarriages: Women who have had two or more miscarriages in a row are more likely than other women to miscarry again.
• Certain chronic diseases or disorders: Poorly controlled diabetes, certain inherited blood clotting disorders, certain autoimmune disorders (such as antiphosphilipid syndrome or lupus), and certain hormonal disorders (such as polycystic ovary syndrome).
• Uterine or cervical problems: Having certain uterine abnormalities or a weak or abnormally short cervix (known as cervical insufficiency).
• A history of birth defects or genetic problems: Having had a child with a birth defect, or a family history (or a partner with a family history) of genetic problems.
• Certain infections: Research has shown a somewhat higher risk for miscarriage if you have listeria, mumps, rubella, measles, cytomegalovirus, parvovirus, gonorrhea, HIV, and certain other infections.
• Smoking, drinking, and using drugs: Smoking a lot, drinking too much alcohol, and using drugs like cocaine and ecstasy during pregnancy can all increase your risk for miscarriage. And some studies show an association between drinking four or more cups of coffee a day and a higher risk of miscarriage.
• Taking certain medications: Some medications have been linked to increased risk of miscarriage, so it's important to ask your caregiver about the safety of any medications you're taking even while you're trying to conceive. This goes for prescription and over-the-counter drugs, including nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs) like ibuprofen and aspirin.
• Exposure to environmental toxins: Environmental factors that might increase your risk include lead; arsenic; some chemicals, like formaldehyde, benzene, and ethylene oxide; and large doses of radiation or anesthetic gases.
• Paternal factors: Little is known about how the father's condition may contribute to a couple's risk for miscarriage, though the risk increases with the father's age. Researchers are studying the extent to which sperm could be damaged by environmental toxins but still manage to fertilize an egg. Some studies have found a greater risk of miscarriage when the father has been exposed to mercury, lead, and some industrial chemicals and pesticides.Your risk of miscarriage also rises with each child you bear and if you get pregnant within three months after giving birth.
Saturday, January 19, 2008
7 Weeks Pregnancy - End
This morning meets up the gynae at 11am and results show that on 17/01, my hormone level was 1210 iu/l and on 19/01, hormone level was 1174 iu/l. So gynae confirm that my hormone did not double up in these 2 days instead has show sign of drops. Next advice, proceed with D&C procedure. Husband accompany me to meet up the gynae and managed to have a short chat with him.
I registered myself to the hospital registration counter at 11:30am and made RM500 as deposit. Then went to another room to change my clothes, lied on bed and wait for nurses to give me the pain killer and some jab for me to have deep sleep. While waiting, managed to send some smses to all my friends and family to inform them not to worry about me.
I blacked out quite fast but still in the middle of my sleep I felt that I was being transfer to another bed and I can even felt the 3 inserts during the operation. No pain and it was just like being too sleepy to border what's happening to me. By the time I woke up it's only a few minutes later. The whole process took less than half an hour only. Total bill was RM993.37.
I had a good sleep at home and wake up by my mum in law for dinner. Eat something like confinement mother had but not strictly fully confinement rules. I had ginger fried rice with egg and ginger chicken.
This is surely some experience I had in my life and there's always purpose from God for every moment I went through in life. If this is for the best for my baby and me, I will except with open heart and be glad in it. Thank you friends for all your prayer.